I am not a psychology expert, however I understand that human behavior is cataloged in a number system. Also human behave is a certain pattern, I call it program.
There are two new real world contacts that lead down psychology lane (fan number 12 and Robert R.), I am not surprised because there is psychological war fare and there are psychological defense mechanisms. When things go wrong for a long time, any of those has an error or loop.
There was a theory that homosexuality both for men and women follows a psychological pattern, I am not saying this pattern is right or wrong, lets just put it to a test, which is the following:
Boy: a little boy loves his mother and wants to marry her, he develops phantasies of being her husband. The love between his father to his mother protects him from those phantasies and he grows up as a healthy man. When the love between the parents doesn’t protect the boy from his phantasies, he loves his mother and becomes afraid of the father. To protect himself from the fear of his father, he turns his love to the father and will look in his later life for a male lover.
Girl: a little girl loves her father and wants to marry him, she develops phantasies of being his wife. The love between her father to her mother protects her from those phantasies and she grows up as a healthy woman. When the love between the parents doesn’t protect the girl from her phantasies, she loves her father and becomes afraid of her mother. To protect herself from the fear of her mother, she turns her love to the mother and will look in her later life for a female lover.
I know there are many other aspects in this discussion and its not at all about judging, its about dynamics. Hormone levels are different in individuals and why not identify with the opposite gender as your body. It’s a form of freedom, that we all need.
The theory above fails in my and the younger generation, when couples divorced and boys and girls didn’t have a father figure anymore or only a partial one. Since Kramer vs. Kramer (1979) the child grew up without her mother, so the mother figure was incomplete.
I grew up with he phrase a bad father or mother is better than none.
Or if a parent dies it’s not as worse as if they divorce, since the child still feel loved by the diseased parent and doesn’t understand why it is not loved by the divorced parent. Furthermore, the child feels a guilty responsibility for the divorce of its parents. The child could not keep them together.
Outdated, I hear. Yes.
The family pattern of the catholic church doesn’t works either since it comes from a group of men who are unable to live it.
The royal families put a glorified picture of family into a society, the historic abuse of power seems to be forgotten.
New strategies are to breed a human being that doesn’t have a difference anymore between man and woman, are we really snails or escargots? (escargots, which car god is that?)
Why do I write this?
psychology lane:
(a) fan number 12, is a nice person, found me through this blog and doesn’t notice that he is instrumentalized to distract me from my work. He is used to link me to cases of false psychological testimonies in Germany that put individual behind bars. The Usual Suspects (1995). It’s a defense mechanism to protect the real offender or it is the pressure to produce any offender.
(b) Robert R. comes from Berlin, he links to my sister in law and my brother. “very tender” is the code word that he uses to distract from the false interpretation of the name Lavrov as rough love and of course to interfere with my virtual link and to replace it with my brother. An effort that is done every day, my poor brother, I can only say. Siblings share more than 50% of their DNA, so it is easy to replace me as a female with a male in all DNA triggered events. I wonder if that is done by Anderson Cooper, who doesn’t have one single female in his four person family, what is wrong with him? his brother jumped from the balcony, no judgement here either only the question what dynamics are false and are not corrected? My observation is that it is done by Angel Merkel, who doesn’t have children and who abuses virtual connectivity as a sick power game, at least that is my opinion.
Friedrich Merz, how are you? I do not understand at all how virtual connectivity is done. It seems a endless loop of abuse, since it is work and not paid for, in essence it is a form of slavery. It would not be so hard if German would follow its laws in regards to my person, but the German justice system is incapable of following its own laws, German is overruled, however I am linked back to German politicians all the time, that are unsuccessful and I am American! Who is so fucking-stupidly connecting like this? I mean which think tank? Yes, it must be Telekom, thank you! I am not their customer however I realize that they manage the network of communications for Vodafone and they are getting linked to the electric system for remote inquiry of the electricity meter. I know managers of Telekom that left for Africa and the French telecommunication system had a problem with high suicide rate amongst their employees.
Now , here we go, the virtual connectivity process found the right connection! Doers!
That’s just what Computer Detectives (ComDec) was waiting for.
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